Service workers are there to service you ONLY as far as the context of their workplace. So, like, a food server is there to find out what food you want, get it from the kitchen, and negotiate your needs around the meal. A bookstore clerk is there to help you find the fucking book you’re looking for, even though your dumb ass can’t remember anything about it except that the cover is blue. Service workers are NOT there to be lectured or personally examined/criticized by you, to be harassed or insulted by you, or to be any more your subordinate than the terms of their job dictates. If you disagree with the way you assume your server is living their life, KEEP IT TO YOUR FUCKING SELF! Because, as long as a server is doing their job, in that moment, in your relationship to your server, you are in a position of power. Using that power as a vehicle to insult, demean, or abuse a person who, because of the nature of your relationship, cannot be expected to defend themself, is straight up bully behavior. You can call it activism if you want, but I hope ALL your food gets spit in.
Biracial families can now be entirely white!
what? no. no, no, no. you can’t list 3 different European nationalities and say you’re a bi-racial family. omg.
This is why democracy is a sham.